Founded in 2000, Kesem is the leading national nonprofit supporting children facing a parent’s cancer. Today, our community consists of more than 4,700 volunteer college student leaders at over 115 college chapters across the country, providing year-round programs and services for these children ages 6-18 at no cost to families.
Kesem offers a wide range of free programs and services to support children affected by a parent’s cancer. Our flagship program, Camp Kesem, is a sleep-away summer camp experience that typically lasts 3 to 5 nights, depending on the location.
Throughout the year, families receive ongoing communication and acknowledgments, including birthday cards, welcome messages, and affirmations, as well as grief support as requested.
Kesem also offers one-day events across the nation called Friends + Family Days and a select number of one-day events called Better Days that are hosted alongside community partners. Lastly, all current and new Kesem families are invited to participate in our virtual meet-up programs called Club Kesem, which is hosted every month and allows Kesem kids to continue to foster their peer connections throughout the year.
Our programs are organized into over 115 college and university-based chapters, with students attending those colleges and universities volunteering year-round to operate Camp Kesem, Kesem Friends + Family Days, Kesem Better Days, and other services.
College and university Kesem chapters are located in 40 states and the District of Columbia. Visit the Kesem Chapters page to find a location near you.
Yes! We welcome your family to participate in as many of our Kesem program offerings as you'd like.
Camp Kesem is the flagship program of Kesem. It is a free overnight summer sleepaway camp (meaning that campers stay overnight at camp), typically ranging from 3 to 5 nights for youth impacted by a parent’s cancer.
All Kesem programs are completely free of charge for families served. Programs include Camp Kesem, Friends + Family Days, Kesem Better Days, Club Kesem, and other year-round services.
Kesem serves youth ages 6-18 who have lost a parent to cancer, have a parent undergoing cancer treatment, or a parent who is a cancer survivor – an estimated population of over 5 million children in the United States.
When the term parent is used at Kesem, it includes any parent or guardian with primary or legal responsibility for a child. This includes biological, adoptive, and foster parents. It can also include grandparents and other relatives in parenting roles.
If your child is turning 6 before but is close to the start of the program, reach out to the chapter to see if an exception can be made.
Camp Kesem is focused solely on supporting children impacted by a parent’s cancer. We are unable to support the broader circle of children whose parents have had other illnesses or children affected by other family members with cancer.
For children who have experienced the loss of a parent, sibling, or primary caregiver due to non-cancer illnesses, visit our Family Resources page for other organizations that can offer support.
If you have questions about a child’s eligibility for our program, please contact support@kesem.org.
Yes! Camp Kesem welcomes campers (and staff) with disabilities, and will make reasonable accommodations for campers with disabilities and medical conditions. If such accommodations are not available, or Camp Kesem cannot ensure the child’s or other campers’ safety, then Camp Kesem is unable to accept the camper. Please contact us at support@kesem.org so we can discuss your child’s accessibility needs.
No, Camp Kesem is a secular camp, and we welcome student volunteers and campers of all backgrounds.
Yes! Campers are part of our Kesem family for life and can return year after year until they age out of the program after age 18.
Don’t worry! Most of our programs and services are hosted off-campus. We rent out campsites for Camp Kesem. One of those locations may be more convenient for you. We also offer our virtual program, Club Kesem. Children from any location can participate in this free program. You can learn more about Club Kesem and register through this webpage.
Yes! Kesem offers a broad range of free programs and services to support children affected by a parent’s cancer outside of our flagship program, Camp Kesem. Kesem also offers one-day events across the country called Friends + Family Days and a select number of one-day events called Better Days that are hosted alongside community partners. We also offer a virtual program called Club Kesem every month that allows Kesem kids to continue to build their peer connections throughout the year.
For families registered for any of the previous programs, Kesem offers additional year-round support services, including birthday cards, welcome messages, affirmations, and grief support as requested.
Our camps are staffed by highly trained college student volunteers. Our students are carefully screened through a competitive interview process and undergo extensive training prior to camp. In addition, they work year-round to raise funds, conduct outreach in their communities, and plan the programming necessary to make camp a truly unique and unforgettable experience. Each camp is also staffed with nursing and mental health professionals and an experienced Camp Advisor. Every volunteer and staff at camp also receives a comprehensive background check.
The Camp Advisor, Camp Nurse, and Camp Mental Health Professional, and much of the program staff are college-graduates over 21 years old. Additionally, all of the camp counselors are older than 18 years old and undergo a thorough application and screening process to become counselors. Camp Advisors are college graduates who are specially trained and selected by Kesem’s national staff. To be selected to be a Camp Advisor, one must have significant Camp Kesem experience and have excelled while a leader of a Camp Kesem program. Also, most campsites that Camp Kesem operates at have professional camp staff to support the Camp Kesem leadership team.
Each Camp Kesem college chapter holds their camp in an off-site camp facility for the week of camp. These campsites are not tenting campsites, but are well-equipped campsites with cabins, activities, cafeterias, etc. Campsites that we rent are held to high standards, and are often YMCA, Girl Scout, or other professional camping venues. Campsites are typically located within 2 to 3 hours of the college chapter. Please visit each camp’s website for details on their specific location.
Visit the “Kesem Chapters” page.
To learn more about Club Kesem and sign up today, you can visit our CLUB KESEM WEBPAGE. Your child will need access to the internet to join a Zoom meeting link, which can be joined from a phone, computer, or tablet. When they join, please help them change their "name" on Zoom to the name they would like to be called in that space.
Participation is encouraged during Club Kesem meet-ups and can be done in a variety of ways based on your child's comfort level. They can choose to be on or off camera, and can choose to unmute themselves to participate or use the chat function to type responses. Please ensure your child knows that they have a parent affected by cancer prior to joining this space. Although the intent of these calls is to be fun and supportive, and our conversations don't center around cancer, sometimes this topic can still come up organically in this space of shared experiences.
Club Kesem meet-ups are a safe space where Kesem Kids can meet, interact, and connect with their peers. Each call, hosted virtually via the Zoom meeting platform, will be facilitated by multiple Kesem team members who will ensure the call runs smoothly and every participant is included. Your child can expect to participate (at their level of comfort; on or off camera) in a variety of activities ranging from scavenger hunts and virtual games to fun and engaging conversations. Some Club Kesem calls have specific "themes" or conversation topics that will be denoted within the program details when you register.
Friends + Family Days are open to the whole family, and parents and siblings of Kesem Kids are encouraged to join if interested. The Kesem chapter hosting the Friends + Family Day will provide specific details about the location, activities, and any additional preparedness needed prior to the event. If a sibling within your family is within the 6-18 age range, please register them for the Friends + Family Day event as a participant. Your family should plan to dress according to the weather in your local area, as many of these events are hosted outside, pending inclement weather.
Please ensure your child knows that they have a parent affected by cancer prior to joining a Friends + Family Day program. Although these events are centered around fun and connection, this topic can often come up organically in conversation in this space of shared experiences.
Friends + Family Days are half to full-day events intended to bring Kesem families together to build connections, provide support, and have fun in a safe space of understanding and shared experiences. The activities at these events vary from organized games at a park or community center to local sporting events. Most Friends + Family Days also include parent-specific programming, so parents are encouraged to join us for the duration of the event. The local Kesem chapter hosting the Friends + Family Day program that you have registered for will provide more details about the event, including location, start time, and more.
Kesem Better Days events are intended exclusively for children facing a parent's cancer, ages 6-18. Please ensure your child is prepared to be away from you during their time participating in Kesem Better Days. Your child should dress according to the local weather, as many of these events include outdoor activities; pending inclement weather. Activities at Kesem Better Days programs vary, and more specific details will provided following registration and prior to the event date.
Please ensure your child knows that they have a parent affected by cancer prior to joining a Kesem Better Days event. Although these events are centered around fun and connection, some mission-oriented programming centered around their experience with a parent's cancer may be included.
Kesem Better Days are planned alongside Kesem's community partners, and activities may vary. We aim to balance fun and mission-centered activities in each program. Some activities may include arts & crafts, interactive games, or even a field trip to a local attraction. Some mission-centered activities may include a "Kesem is stronger than cancer" banner activity, or an opportunity to share more about their experience with a parent's cancer among program participants. Once registered for a Kesem Better Days event, you will receive additional program details and more information about what your child can expect from the event.
Camp Kesem program registration opens in January of each year and is processed on a first-come, first-served basis. All Camp Kesem registrations are completed on CampSite, Kesem's official registration platform, which you can navigate to from kesem.org. If you would like to receive a paper copy of our registration materials that can be printed and mailed, you can email us at support@kesem.org or call us at 253-736-3821.
Registration for monthly Club Kesem virtual meet-ups is open year-round. All Club Kesem event registrations are completed on CampSite, our registration platform, which you can navigate to from kesem.org.
Registration for Kesem chapter Friends + Family Day (F+FD) events is available in September for Fall chapter events and in December for Spring chapter events. All F+FD event registrations are completed on CampSite, our registration platform, which you can navigate to from kesem.org.
Yes! You can register for Kesem programs on a smartphone or tablet, as well as a desktop or laptop computer.
No. Health insurance is not required to participate in any of our Kesem programs and has no impact on registration status.
Yes, if your child is attending a Camp Kesem program. Due to licensing requirements, there is a mandatory Kesem health form (this form is also available within CampSite labeled as "Camp Physician Authorization Form") that must be signed by a physician and uploaded to CampSite before the start of the Camp Kesem program for which your child is registered. In lieu of Kesem’s health form, a school or sports physical that has been completed within the last 12 months of the registered Camp Kesem program start date will be accepted.
If your child is attending a Friends + Family Day event, Kesem Better Days program, or Club Kesem virtual meet-up, the Kesem health form is not required or collected.
If the Camp Kesem session you would like to register for is full, we highly encourage you to join the waitlist; we often have camper spaces become available. Additionally, families on the waitlist are included in priority registration the following year, and are immediately included in all year-round service offerings.
We encourage you to join us at our other Kesem program offerings, too. Club Kesem virtual meet-ups are hosted monthly and currently do not have participant capacity limits, and Friends + Family Day events are hosted twice a year and do not have participant capacity limits.
All program registrations will receive a confirmation email within 24 hours.
If you noted on your initial registration submission that your child has additional needs to fully participate in our programs, you will receive a prompt to complete an additional form. We will review the information provided within the form, and if we require any further details, we will contact you using the email or phone number listed on your registration submission. Please note: indicating these needs does not disqualify or delay your child from participating in our programs. If a volunteer contacts you about your submission, it is to ensure that we can support your child's needs effectively.
This likely means that the Kesem chapter is still working on finalizing program dates and contracts. We encourage you to proceed with registration for the session and claim your child's spot. You can reach out to a local chapter about their timeline for finalizing program dates via the Kesem Chapter directory. Once you are registered with a Kesem chapter, they will continue to keep you informed as program details are finalized.
You can easily see your child's current registered programs by logging into CampSite at kesem.campmanagement.com/campers. After logging in, visit the "Enrollment" tab. Every confirmed program registration will be listed beneath your child's name. If you would like to register for a program that is not listed, please click the blue "Enroll for 2024-2024" button, and complete the process.
If you forgot your CampSite account password or want to reset your password for any reason, you can do so directly via the CampSite login page. If you have questions about Kesem program offerings, the registration process, Camp Kesem session transfers or withdrawals, information updates, Kesem chapter program details, eligibility, or accommodations for specific needs, please reach out to the Kesem Support Team directly.
Many of our chapters provide bus transportation from a central area to the campsite. If a chapter does not provide bus transportation, we can typically provide another form of support with transportation to your local chapter. When you register your camper, you will be asked to check a box if you need transportation support and then we will follow-up with you to determine what will work best for your family. Unfortunately, at this time we cannot provide transportation support to families who live in a state without a Kesem chapter.
You will receive a packing list before camp starts, and supplies typically include clothing, sleeping bag and pillow, towels, and sunscreen as the essentials.
We are always happy to provide support with supplies. When you register your camper, you will be asked to check a box if you need support with supplies and we will follow up with you to determine what is needed. At any time, please don’t hesitate to let us know if there is a packing list item you don’t have.
Please visit the “A Day at Camp” section of our website to see a sample schedule for a day at Camp Kesem.
We serve three nutritious kid-friendly meals a day, along with snacks. Our menus vary but may include things like burritos, pizza, sandwiches and salad, or burgers all with sides of vegetables or fruit. Breakfasts can include sausage, pancakes, cereal, eggs, etc. We have plenty of snacks available at camp for throughout the day.
There are always vegetarian options available. Our campsites are committed to accommodating allergies and special dietary needs. Please be sure to note your child’s dietary restrictions on their application (and if your child is a picky eater please also note this and what kinds of foods they typically like at home!).
While the cabin setup varies between camp locations, we typically have 5-10 youth of a similar age in each single-gender cabin (along with 3-4 counselors of the same gender identity). Each child has their own single bed (often bunk-beds) and all cabins have electricity. Campers are never left unsupervised.
We find that these conversations often increase homesickness and delay children’s adjustment to camp. Additionally, it is not feasible for all children to call home. If one child calls home, it can cause increased homesickness for other campers. Except under the most unusual circumstances, campers are not permitted to talk with their families over the telephone for the following reasons:
• We keep the campers very busy with lots of fun during camp! We do not want to have to pull them away from their activities and peers to come to the phone.
• We prioritize keeping phone lines open for urgent calls. We will absolutely contact you if there are any concerns, and will provide you with contact information so you can contact us in case of emergency. We will also post pictures and brief updates online throughout the week of camp.
• We know this might be a new experience for many families! We are happy to explain this policy further and address any questions or concerns you might have or connect you with a returning camper family. If you believe your family might have an unusual circumstance (for example, wanting to update a child about a parent’s medical condition during the week of camp) please let us know and we can discuss.
Yes! We’d be happy to connect you with one of the Kesem families who have graciously offered to speak with prospective parents. Please use the “Contact Us” page to let us know you are interested. We recommend providing a bit of information about your children (ages, any concerns about attending camp, language spoken etc.) so we can connect you with a family who can best answer your questions.
Camp Kesem affirms and welcomes people of all gender identities, and will work with your family to ensure your transgender or gender expansive child has a positive experience at camp. Camp Kesem recognizes that gender identity exists on a spectrum. We will work with your family after receiving your application to select a sleeping area that most closely matches your child’s gender identity. As part of our values at Kesem, we ask that everyone in the Kesem family respects the gender identity of one another including sleeping area selection, names, and pronouns.
The health and safety of your children has always been and will continue to be our number one priority. To help ensure their safety, every volunteer who attends camp must first complete over 20 hours of training, including modules on how to address bullying, prevent harassment, and support campers’ mental health.
Additionally, Kesem performs a background check on all our camp volunteers. Finally, our policies ensure campers and staff are never alone, and our high 3:1 camper to counselor ratio allows an excellent standard of supervision – far more than you would see at any traditional summer camp.
Yes, a licensed Camp Nurse will be on-site at all times to issue all medications and care for any injuries or sickness.
We realize that children of cancer patients have additional needs- and we address them by giving them extra attention and support. Camp Kesem has a 3:1 camper to counselor ratio to ensure that campers receive extra attention. These counselors ensure that camp is a safe, supportive, high-energy, and fun place for every camper. Campers are supervised at all times and are never alone 1:1 with one another or with a staff member.
All water activities are supervised by at least two certified lifeguards in addition to our counselors. Our campsites also provide life jackets. Campers are also not required to participate in swim activities – as with all of our activities, participation is optional and there are alternate activities available.
No. Our student leaders provide a warm and loving environment where children are free to share their feelings with one another. Our model focuses on providing a strong peer-based support network where children can find strength, hope, compassion, and fun. We also have a licensed Mental Health Professional at all camp sessions to provide additional support and guidance, if needed.
Leader In Training (LIT) are our 14-18 year olds who participate in our Teen Leadership Program as a part of camp. LITs are split into two separate groups – our 14-16 year olds, and 17-18 year olds. Both groups are focused on having fun at camp and participating in age appropriate activities and leadership development; our older LITs will have additional opportunities for development through workshops and trainings.
Yes! We want everyone who is interested in attending to be able to do so, including our Deaf and hard of hearing community members. ASL Interpreters can be made available at camp and other Kesem events such as Friends + Family Day upon request, provided we are given enough advanced notice. Requests for ASL interpretation during camp should be made at minimum four weeks prior to camp to support@kesem.org. After that date, requests cannot be guaranteed.
No, children are not required to talk about their parent's cancer at Kesem programs. Your child will quickly become part of a loving, supportive community of children who understand and respect each other. For most of our campers, being part of this community – with other kids who are just like them – is empowering, comforting, encouraging, and inspirational. Children are given optional opportunities to share anything that is on their mind in nightly “Cabin Chats,” which are held with their own cabin (and facilitated by our trained volunteer student leaders). They are also invited to participate with campers in an Empowerment Ceremony created to honor all camper families and journeys.
Our program counselors and student leader volunteers are enrolled at colleges and universities with a Kesem chapter. Our student leaders work all year to plan, fundraise, and host Kesem programs and provide year-round services like grief support, welcome messages, and Friends + Family Days to children and families facing a parent's cancer.
SEE OUR LIST OF CHAPTERS. Some Kesem chapters also offer involvement opportunities for nearby community college or satellite campus students. Contact your local chapter to learn more about opportunities near you. If you don't see your college or university on our Kesem chapter list and would like to bring Kesem to your campus, please visit our START A KESEM CHAPTER page.
If you are interested in starting Kesem at your university, please complete the form on our “Start a Kesem Chapter” page.
While we love our volunteers, camp is only for campers, counselors and professional staff. If you would like to get involved in other ways, visit our “Kesem Volunteer Opportunities” page.
The Health & Wellness Team works together at camp to maintain the safety of all campers and staff at camp. This makes it necessary for these team members to work together collaboratively. Although each team member has a specific role (outlined below), the goal is to reach a consensus. Professional judgment is considered and valued while ultimately abiding by established rules and policies.
• Nurses: Manage first aid and medical situations that arise at camp; responsibly distribute medications to campers and counselors.
• Mental Health Professionals (MHPs): Manage behavioral and emotional situations that arise at camp. Provide support to counselors to better serve their campers.
• Camp Advisors: Ensure that established policies and procedures are implemented appropriately at camp. Camp Advisors serve as the liaison between the chapter and National during camp.
• Support Aide (if needed): Assist in program planning, coach counselors through accommodations, and guide campers in camp participation.
Interpreter (if needed): Translate and interpret spoken language using American Sign Language or other manual sign language systems and vice versa to facilitate communication between hearing and Deaf/HOH individuals.
The application opens in the winter and can be accessed through Kesem’s website.
Yes! Our Health & Wellness Team application can be completed on a smartphone or tablet, as well as using a traditional desktop or laptop computer.
Please contact your local chapter if you are interested in learning more about compensation.
No. Our student leaders provide a warm and loving environment where children are free to share their feelings with one another. Our model focuses on providing a strong peer-based support network where children can find strength, hope, compassion and fun. See a sample schedule for a day at Camp Kesem.
Yes! When completing an application, you will have the option to select which chapters you are interested in attending. If you choose that you are willing to travel to other camps in your application, a member of our staff will reach out to you about upcoming opportunities throughout the late spring/summer.
It depends on the camp. Members of the Health & Wellness Team usually sleep with the Administration Team and Camp Advisor(s). Check with your chapter about what your accommodations will look like.
Each Kesem chapter may provide transportation assistance or transportation reimbursement for members of the Health & Wellness Team. Please contact your local chapter to inquire about their ability to provide transportation support for you.
Athletic, comfortable clothes are highly recommended. Something light and loose that you don’t mind getting messy! Closed-toed shoes are required except when at the pool (crocs count!).
Each member of our Health & Wellness Team has something they love most about supporting our chapters. Here are just a few highlights of being a part of the Health & Wellness Team: s’mores, providing campers with an escape, building relationships with campers and counselors, and growing in your abilities as a professional!
It can be difficult working in a system where you have limited control. There are structures, activities, and policies that you may not be used to; however, they are still necessary. Organization and adapting to a camp environment - it’s so different from every other job!
Each Kesem college chapter holds its camp in an off-site camp facility for the week of camp. These campsites are not tenting campsites, but are well-equipped campsites with cabins, activities, cafeterias, etc. Campsites that we rent are held to high standards and are often YMCA, Girl Scout, or other professional camping venues. Campsites are typically located within 2-3 hours of the college chapter. Please visit each camp’s website for details on their specific site.
We serve three nutritious meals a day, along with snacks. Our menus vary but may include things like burritos, pizza, sandwiches, salad, or burgers with sides of vegetables or fruit. Breakfasts can consist of sausage, pancakes, cereal, eggs, etc. We have plenty of snacks available at camp throughout the day.
There are always vegetarian options available. Our campsites are committed to accommodating allergies and special dietary needs. Please be sure to note your dietary restrictions on your application.
Our camps are staffed by highly trained college student leaders. These students are carefully screened through a competitive interview process and undergo extensive training before camp. In addition, our student leaders work year-round to raise funds, conduct outreach in their communities, and plan the programming necessary to make camp a truly unique and unforgettable experience. Each camp is also staffed with a Health & Wellness Team consisting of Nurses, Mental Health Professionals, and an experienced Camp Advisor. Every volunteer and staff at camp also receives a comprehensive background check.
No, Camp Kesem is a secular camp, and we welcome student volunteers and campers of all backgrounds.
To help ensure the safety of every child participating in a Camp Kesem program, every volunteer who attends the camp program must first complete over 20 hours of mandatory training, including modules on behavior management, bullying and harassment prevention, and supporting children's mental health. Kesem also performs a background check on all volunteers.
Kesem policies ensure Camp Kesem campers and volunteers are never alone or unsupervised, and our high 3:1 camper-to-volunteer ratio allows for an excellent standard of supervision and safety–far more than at a summer camp with a more traditional model.
